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		<title>Real life</title>
		<link>http://evannelorraine.com/index.php/2010/07/real-life-60/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 12:00:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Evanne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[While chatting with a friend, the subject of favorite books came up&#8211;I know, big surprise&#8211; As I listened to her enthuse about the novels she rereads, I recognized the books and I wondered if somehow the contents had been sifted through some other dimension so that while the authors and titles were the same, we [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While chatting with a friend, the subject of favorite books came up&#8211;I know, big surprise&#8211; <img src='http://evannelorraine.com/wp-content/plugins/smilies-themer/Nomicons v2.0/laughing.png' alt=':lol:' class='wp-smiley' />  As I listened to her enthuse about the novels she rereads, I recognized the books and I wondered if somehow the contents had been sifted through some other dimension so that while the authors and titles were the same, we read entirely different books. The more I thought about, the more sense this explanation made.  </p>
<p>The other dimension is the reader&#8217;s mind.  None of us read the same book.  Each of us brings her own set of filters and perception of reality to the pages.  Successful authors are those who tap into the nearly universal threads of humanity. It follows that my enthusiasm for a particular book says more about me than the merit of the literary work.  </p>
<p>I&#8217;d rather live in a world of absolute truth where everything make sense all the time. Since my real life is never like that, I adore escapist entertainment.  This  may be another secret of successful fiction.  <img src='http://evannelorraine.com/wp-content/plugins/smilies-themer/Nomicons v2.0/blink.png' alt=':blink:' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>What do you think, are there provable facts or is everything subject to perception?       </p>
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		<title>Real life</title>
		<link>http://evannelorraine.com/index.php/2010/07/real-life-59/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 12:00:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Evanne</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Real life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[creating stories]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[working for a living]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[When people learn I write fiction lots of them ask where I get my ideas. Even more develop eager glints in their eyes and say, &#8220;Have I got a story for you.&#8221; These folks should write. They&#8217;re naturals, perfectly willing to pitch to their most intimate fantasies to a virtual stranger. Alas, story concepts are [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When people learn I write fiction lots of them ask where I get my ideas.  Even more develop eager glints in their eyes and say, &#8220;Have I got a story for you.&#8221; </p>
<p>These folks should write.  They&#8217;re naturals, perfectly willing to pitch to their most intimate fantasies to a virtual  stranger.  </p>
<p>Alas, story concepts are the easy part.  Stories are part of the human DNA, the need to tell them passed on like straight hair, overbites, and brown eyes.  Actually writing these tales takes serious work. Lots of it and not a bit of it glamorous.  </p>
<p>Strangely, I enjoy the word crafting.  I get lost checking the Chicago Manual of Style.  This explains why my manuscripts still contain so many errors.  <img src='http://evannelorraine.com/wp-content/plugins/smilies-themer/Nomicons v2.0/blush.png' alt=':blush:' class='wp-smiley' /> Hours elapse while I&#8217;m looking for just the right word.  More time passes recasting a sentence for stronger impact or smoother rhythm.  </p>
<p>What do you like best about your job?    </p>
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		<title>Real life</title>
		<link>http://evannelorraine.com/index.php/2010/07/real-life-61/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jul 2010 12:00:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dangerouslysexy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Pacific Northwest is having a heatwave (seventies, with spikes into the eighties). No doubt, all my friends on the east coast are snickering. But this is serious heat around here. Most folks don&#8217;t have air conditioning in their cars, homes, or even at work. Most of the year we have the same kind of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Pacific Northwest is having a heatwave (seventies, with spikes into the eighties).  No doubt, all my friends on the east coast are snickering.  But this is serious heat around here.  Most folks don&#8217;t have air conditioning in their cars, homes, or even at work.  <img src='http://evannelorraine.com/wp-content/plugins/smilies-themer/Nomicons v2.0/shocked.png' alt=':shocked:' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Most of the year we have the same kind of weather, cool, cloudy, and wet.  Once in awhile we get hot and sunny or cold and snowy.  In either case, we aren&#8217;t prepared.  <img src='http://evannelorraine.com/wp-content/plugins/smilies-themer/Nomicons v2.0/blush.png' alt=':blush:' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Go ahead and whine about your weather, I&#8217;m sure it&#8217;s worse.  <img src='http://evannelorraine.com/wp-content/plugins/smilies-themer/Nomicons v2.0/wink.png' alt=':wink:' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<link>http://evannelorraine.com/index.php/2010/07/real-life-57/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jul 2010 12:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Evanne</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Real life]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[My favorite clothes always wear out fastest. I understand why. They&#8217;re either on my back or they&#8217;re in the laundry. Since I&#8217;m a practical woman, as soon as I notice a particular item is a favorite, I buy a couple more. The only problem with this brilliant strategy is said garment is seldom available even [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My favorite clothes always wear out fastest.  I understand why.  They&#8217;re either on my back or they&#8217;re in the laundry.  <img src='http://evannelorraine.com/wp-content/plugins/smilies-themer/Nomicons v2.0/angel.png' alt=':angel:' class='wp-smiley' />  Since I&#8217;m a practical woman, as soon as I notice a particular item is a favorite, I buy a couple more.  The only problem with this brilliant strategy is said garment is seldom available even a few weeks after purchase.  </p>
<p>Am I the only one who&#8217;s thrilled with a pair of jeans that fit perfectly?  Or a tee shirt that is soft, comfy, but not transparent?  These are basics, they should be readily available.  Alas, they are not.  </p>
<p>In fact, even if I hotfoot it right back to the store (or website) where I found the great jeans or wonderful sweater, within a week or two&#8211;I want to see if it&#8217;s appeal survives at least one round of wash and dry before I stock up&#8211;the style is no longer available.  <img src='http://evannelorraine.com/wp-content/plugins/smilies-themer/Nomicons v2.0/angry.png' alt=':angry:' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Share your pet peeves&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Real Life</title>
		<link>http://evannelorraine.com/index.php/2010/07/real-life-58/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jul 2010 12:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Evanne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Fourth of July is my least favorite holiday. Nothing against the birth of our nation; a fine reason to celebrate. Nothing against fireworks, I&#8217;ve seen some spectacular professional displays. What I don&#8217;t like are all the enthusiastic neighborhood amateur demolitions. Otherwise normal, well behaved people purchase large quantities of fireworks and various other explosive [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Fourth of July is my least favorite holiday.  Nothing against the birth of our nation; a fine reason to celebrate.  Nothing against fireworks, I&#8217;ve seen some spectacular professional displays.  </p>
<p>What I don&#8217;t like are all the enthusiastic neighborhood amateur demolitions.  Otherwise normal, well behaved people purchase large quantities of fireworks and various other explosive devices and set fire to them for hours on end.  This drives the dog crazy and does nothing to improve my mood.</p>
<p>Maybe someday,, I&#8217;ll write a heroine who&#8217;s wild about fireworks.  <img src='http://evannelorraine.com/wp-content/plugins/smilies-themer/Nomicons v2.0/wub.png' alt=':wub:' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
<p>Until then, I&#8217;m closing the doors and windows, turning on the a/c and playing Jaws and Independence Day until the mayhem ceases.    </p>
<p>How do you feel about fireworks&#8211;love them or leave them?  </p>
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		<title>Real life</title>
		<link>http://evannelorraine.com/index.php/2010/06/real-life-56/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jun 2010 12:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Evanne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last week I had my first toothache. No fun. It hurt to smile. This made me think about those people I see from time to time who scowl at the world. Maybe they have toothaches&#8230;.. The real revelation was something I already knew, but don&#8217;t always remember. I have no idea what&#8217;s going one with [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last week I had my first toothache.  No fun.  It hurt to smile.  This made me think about those people I see from time to time who scowl at the world.  Maybe they have toothaches&#8230;..</p>
<p>The real revelation was something I already knew,  but don&#8217;t always remember.  I have no idea what&#8217;s going one with other people unless they choose to tell me.  And even then, there&#8217;s lots of room for misunderstanding.    </p>
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		<title>Real life</title>
		<link>http://evannelorraine.com/index.php/2010/06/real-life-49/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jun 2010 12:00:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Evanne</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Real life]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Did I miss the spring spam special? My mail box and comments have been overflowing. Harmless, but not near as nice a fan letters&#8230; How do you feel about spam? Annoyance or worse?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Did I miss the spring spam special?  My mail box and comments have been overflowing.  Harmless, but not near as nice a fan letters&#8230; <img src='http://evannelorraine.com/wp-content/plugins/smilies-themer/Nomicons v2.0/unsure.png' alt=':unsure:' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>How do you feel about spam?  Annoyance or worse?  </p>
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		<title>Real life</title>
		<link>http://evannelorraine.com/index.php/2010/06/real-life-54/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jun 2010 12:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Evanne</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Real life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ideas]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[reading]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Whenever someone learns I write, the first or second question is usually, where do you get your ideas? The aspiring writer, the potential fan, the woman on the street all ask some variation of this basic question. Ideas flood into my head, for me it&#8217;s a painful process of selecting which story to write next. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whenever someone learns I write, the first or second question is usually, <em>where do you get your ideas?</em>  The aspiring writer, the potential fan, the woman on the street all ask some variation of this basic question.  </p>
<p>Ideas flood into my head, for me it&#8217;s a painful process of selecting which story to write next.  I try to balance practicality, for example the series that is due for another episode, and the story I want to write most.  That last one is the critical factor.  </p>
<p>After all I am the first reader, it has to be a story that entertains me.  </p>
<p>So, tell me about your favorite stories, what story do you want to write/read?  </p>
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		<title>Real life</title>
		<link>http://evannelorraine.com/index.php/2010/06/real-life-55/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jun 2010 12:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Evanne</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[distractions]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[On Tuesdays, at the butt crack of dawn, the trash collections roll through my neighborhood. At a respectable hour, I saunter outside to return the recycling and garbage containers to their appointed slots. Last week, while I was performing this mundane task, the sun broke through the cloud cover and illuminated a sassy weed in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On Tuesdays, at the butt crack of dawn, the trash collections roll through my neighborhood.  At a respectable hour, I saunter outside to return the recycling and garbage containers to their appointed slots.  Last week, while I was performing this mundane task, the sun broke through the cloud cover and illuminated a sassy weed in the west border.  It was the work of a minute to rip the offender out from the rich soil, which is reserved for nourishing ornamentals.   </p>
<p>Unfortunately, the weed, like so many of his ilk, was not a single man passing through the garden.  He&#8217;d already started a family and sent out invitations to his friends and relatives.  I rooted out the rowdy interlopers, dusted off my grimy hands and returned to the house where the cursor blinked expectantly.  To my amazement, nearly an hour had passed. </p>
<p>Since it takes me an hour to put away the garbage cans, it&#8217;s no wonder I&#8217;m having a hard time getting my words done.  <img src='http://evannelorraine.com/wp-content/plugins/smilies-themer/Nomicons v2.0/shocked.png' alt=':shocked:' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>So what&#8217;s eating your time?   </p>
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		<title>Real life</title>
		<link>http://evannelorraine.com/index.php/2010/05/real-life-47/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 27 May 2010 12:00:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Evanne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sunday night Louie (the cat) went out around midnight and didn&#8217;t come home. He&#8217;s sixteen, slowing down and had recently developed a cough. I thought either he&#8217;d been hit by a car or he&#8217;d deliberately gone off to die. When Katie (the rowdy dog) and I walked around the neighborhood Monday, I feared finding his [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sunday night Louie (the cat) went out around midnight  and didn&#8217;t come home. </p>
<p>He&#8217;s sixteen, slowing down and had recently developed a cough.  I thought either he&#8217;d been hit by a car or he&#8217;d deliberately gone off to die.  When Katie (the rowdy dog) and I walked around the neighborhood Monday, I feared finding his body.  Yesterday, when we came home from the dog park I found him downstairs on the couch.  One of his back paws was missing patches fur and skin and was double its normal size.  </p>
<p>Though He purred when I pet him,  considering how traumatized his leg was and that he wouldn&#8217;t eat or drink.  I decided to purchase a cat carrier and take him to our vet the next day when they opened.  I called my daughter to let her know I couldn&#8217;t do lunch on Wednesday, because I was taking Louie to the vet.  She offered to bring a cat carrier and drive to the twenty-four hour emergency animal clinic.  I hadn&#8217;t even thought of the emergency clinic. </p>
<p>Once at the clinic,the doc examined Louie and gave him pain meds and explained the realities of his injury. Considering his age and the extent of his trauma with no likelihood of good recovery, I made the decision to euthanize him.</p>
<p>I am a firm believer in quality of life and not prolonging suffering in animals or humans. I&#8217;m glad he was not mangled on a busy street or dying a slow death of dehydration in a nearby greenbelt.  And yet, I&#8217;m so very sad he&#8217;s gone. </p>
<p>All the good things in life I try to be grateful for still exist, but today there&#8217;s no celebration in my heart.  I ache for a crotchety old cat with disgusting personal habits.  Vain, lazy, and a stone-cold killer of rodents and song birds, he also purred like the rumble of coming thunder, and warmed my lap every night.  </p>
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